@elderbong I think that in this space the deterrence is both our profound outnumbering ~and~ administrative support, so I want to tread carefully with provocation.
One issue I had is that someone used a ~word I would not use~ very casually in thinkpiece style and while I fiercely wanted to call them out (AND DID! Then deleted) I worried that I was misreading and whitesplaining/did not understand context
But also, like, probably not? I guess I have to be ... sure to tusk