@ikea_femme Someone I followed on some media a while ago wrote about seeing a beautiful woman on a train who she could read as trans because of her own experience with "tells"- obviously she didn't say anything, but she wrote about how inspiring and beautiful this woman is with her style and confidence - Her writing conveyed power and beauty in that unspoken possibly mutual knowing. It's most certainly not my lane to declare, but I hope that's a compassionate lens to share