there is a well known rapist (there are several but this is abt one of them) in the infosec/hacker community here. the husband of a woman he raped has done the bare minimum (refused to hang out w him or his supporters) but nothing else to call out the bullshit or publicly support his wife & his career has suffered quite a bit from it bc hackers don't have work/life balance & if u miss out on coke parties bc u don't want to hang out w rapists u don't get hired