Sometimes I feel like I'm the only queer person who isn't constantly overflowing with compersion.

I want my hypothetical partners to be hypothetically happy, however and with whomever they want. But in practice I dislike actually seeing or imagining this. Intellectually I like the idea, but not in actuality.

I have to put up a lot of emotional distance between a partner and myself in order to feel "okay" with polyamory, and I don't know how healthy that is in the long term.

@Sparrow I think a lot of people really struggle with this, even if they don't really love to admit it.