"Why are queer people so overtly sexual so often?"
Well. Okay. Imagine opening a can of soda after shaking it for more than a decade.
@Noelle808 possibly because some folks scream louder than the rest. so one only hears / sees the most obnoxious 20%, while the other 80% stay enragingly cool, silent and normal.
@Noelle808 Glad I wasn't drinking any soda while reading that!
@Noelle808 And then I realize it may not be clear that made me giggle snort.
@Noelle808 I don't trust cishet's ideas of "overtly sexual". To many of them, 2 men holding hands is "shoving their gayness down your throat".
@ebel @Noelle808 Two lesbians existing is an explicitly sexual act. Bisexuals are literally on the hunt for it all the time. Trans people are perverts from the very start and want everyone to know about their genitals.
Cishets are the very definition of "unreliable narrator".
@Nezchan @ebel @Noelle808 Not me, I don't even want me to know about my ... um.
@Noelle808 also there's selection bias: it's hard(er) to know the sexual orientation of those that are not overtly sexual...
@Noelle808 Also: Have you even seen straight people?
They sexualise their babies
THEIR BABIES
Like, "What a little ladies man!" to a 6-month-old
Frankly, we're soft-pedaling it, compared to the straights
(There's also the fact that since we're already seen as sexual deviants by society, there's little incentive *not* to be more explicitly sexual)