So yeah, I've been a bit into bdsm. It didn't last for very long, and I'm still kind of a newbie. I had some interesting moments, sadly with not that nice people.

I just wanted to tell, since the music I am listening to reminds me of bdsm. Being restrained by your own will, accepting orders and that human nature isn't what we're told is "the norm" in society. Being tied helps me free myself. Being in subspace is a very good way to deal with the burden of my life, at least for a moment.

The trick sadly is that in my case it's easy to get addicted to it. And it doesn't solve anything. It just helps.

However, the heavier the burden on one's back, the more cautious one must be.

What's fun with subspace is that you forget everything basically, body feels good and mind has only few focus that are strong enough to erase social weight. In a way.

But it comes with the fact that if you goes out of subspace in a too violent way, or aren't taken care of : it all comes back in a very strong way.

Subs are more fragile than dom' in that regard. But it works basically the same for doms'. To forget the binds of society. In a way that either gets closer to its extreme, or get far from social norms.

@Morgane my friends are really into it so I gave it a try. Turns out bondage and accepting orders only makes me anxious and depressed.

It's really not for everyone...

@polychrome No it's not ! Of course ! I'm sorry if what I wrote can be understood that way, I apologize ! You are entirely right, not everybody has the same desires neither the same ways to seek freedom ! Which is actually a wonderful thing that I love to see blossom when I look at people I know.

Also, I also want to add that bdsm and how things goes can vary a lot according to the peple/situations. But indeed, some people will only feel anxious and I am not saying bdsm is a magical thing that solves problems.

I am sorry and I hope you will be alright.