controversial advice maybe Afficher plus
hey so
trust the people around you to tell you when you've crossed a line
try to respect the boundaries they've told you about but TRUST them to tell you about the important ones
@Maenad ...did I cross one? sorry
@LottieVixen no? I would have told you, hence this post.
I just see a lot of people being lewd and then freaking out a little or similar and like.
If you tag it and no one tells you it makes them uncomfortable maybe just trust them to be okay.
@Maenad ah okay sorry just timing of this toot made me wonder
@MaenadYou've crossed a line
@Maenad I have trouble with this. Finding out after the fact that You Did The Thing is hard.
@serafin it's true but i think people with boundaries need to communicate them.
And you shouldn't be apologetic by default when interacting with them.
I think you're a more confident person than me by default, tho.
(Also sex works a little differently in terms of social dynamic so I guess this doesn't apply universally).
controversial advice maybe Afficher plus
@Maenad ...did I cross one? sorry