@LottieVixen no? I would have told you, hence this post.

I just see a lot of people being lewd and then freaking out a little or similar and like.

If you tag it and no one tells you it makes them uncomfortable maybe just trust them to be okay.

@Maenad ah okay sorry just timing of this toot made me wonder

@serafin it's true but i think people with boundaries need to communicate them.

And you shouldn't be apologetic by default when interacting with them.

I think you're a more confident person than me by default, tho.

(Also sex works a little differently in terms of social dynamic so I guess this doesn't apply universally).