wow I think I come off as weirdly focused on this guy's sexuality (he's gay, I keep mentioning looking for gay things but have used male pronouns for my partner)
... I ... just ... need spaces that aren't default het for my own self :<
@serafin I'm really hoping the hair is like a massive blazing signal because I don't want to be all "hi, I just met you, and this is crazy, but... I'm bi, btw"
also, yes
@Maenad back in my younger days I'd wear some kind of shibboleth item, like a button or a bracelet. some of the places I have to frequent are unfortunately kinda hostile for that though :(
@Maenad hard being invisible, eh?