**Maggie** @Maenad · 21 fév. 2018, 23:09

**Maggie** @Maenad · 21 fév. 2018, 23:09

Maggie @Maenad

21 fév. 2018, 23:09

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

In an exchange with chosa the other day he was all "having an AD sounds like too much account management for me" and I basically....

yes?

but like, occupying a feminine body, I've struggled with being taken seriously for reasons like "maybe being horny" forever. I don't want "was horny once" to be a reason people don't take my "academia sucks, vaccinate your kids" posts seriously.

I have an AD because I'm horny but basically pathologically afraid of being horny on main.

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

21 fév. 2018, 23:43

the reasonable olive liker @deem@dev.glitch.social

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad my concern is like, i don't want people who follow me take me expressing sexuality as like, an invitation b/c yk women being sexual is so often viewed as an opportunity to consume us

**Maggie** @Maenad · 2018-02-21T23:46:03Z

Maggie @Maenad

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@deem yeah

this is also why I made my AD a "request to follow" thing - I want to share myself with people I like and trust, not the world at large.

I started this account feeling really free to finally just be myself somewhere online and not censor myself and now I realize that I'm basically terrified of losing what respect I've gleaned here and being treated like an object in uninvited ways.

Do you mind if I boost this, btw?

21 fév. 2018, 23:46 · 0 · 1

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

21 fév. 2018, 23:46

the reasonable olive liker @deem@dev.glitch.social

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad no not at all :)

**👉@meena@glitch.social** @meena · 22 fév. 2018, 00:08

**👉@meena@glitch.social** @meena · 22 fév. 2018, 00:08

22 fév. 2018, 00:08

👉@meena@glitch.social @meena

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad @deem it's funny that i started out masto with two accounts: @hirojin is my computers are bad account and this is my… everything else… I'm personal here, but still not private.