**Maggie** @Maenad · 2018-02-21T23:09:22Z

Maggie @Maenad

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

In an exchange with chosa the other day he was all "having an AD sounds like too much account management for me" and I basically....

yes?

but like, occupying a feminine body, I've struggled with being taken seriously for reasons like "maybe being horny" forever. I don't want "was horny once" to be a reason people don't take my "academia sucks, vaccinate your kids" posts seriously.

I have an AD because I'm horny but basically pathologically afraid of being horny on main.

21 fév. 2018, 23:09 · 1 · 7

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

21 fév. 2018, 23:43

the reasonable olive liker @deem@dev.glitch.social

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad my concern is like, i don't want people who follow me take me expressing sexuality as like, an invitation b/c yk women being sexual is so often viewed as an opportunity to consume us

**Maggie** @Maenad · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

**Maggie** @Maenad · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

21 fév. 2018, 23:46

Maggie @Maenad

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@deem yeah

this is also why I made my AD a "request to follow" thing - I want to share myself with people I like and trust, not the world at large.

I started this account feeling really free to finally just be myself somewhere online and not censor myself and now I realize that I'm basically terrified of losing what respect I've gleaned here and being treated like an object in uninvited ways.

Do you mind if I boost this, btw?

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

**the reasonable olive liker** @deem@dev.glitch.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:46

21 fév. 2018, 23:46

the reasonable olive liker @deem@dev.glitch.social

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad no not at all :)

**👉@meena@glitch.social** @meena · 22 fév. 2018, 00:08

**👉@meena@glitch.social** @meena · 22 fév. 2018, 00:08

22 fév. 2018, 00:08

👉@meena@glitch.social @meena

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad @deem it's funny that i started out masto with two accounts: @hirojin is my computers are bad account and this is my… everything else… I'm personal here, but still not private.

**Jess is bot mom** @catoutofbed@octodon.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

**Jess is bot mom** @catoutofbed@octodon.social · 21 fév. 2018, 23:43

21 fév. 2018, 23:43

Jess is bot mom @catoutofbed@octodon.social

sexism, "horny on main" ref Afficher plus

@Maenad
mmmmmmm mood