being skinny is not a moral obligation

nor is being pretty, come to think of it (though being pretty does not require being skinny)

this is a necessary reminder for myself because migraine has me eating a lot of easy food which has me feeling fat and ugly

"those things aren't important" is more useful to me than "those things aren't true"

@Maenad Ugh, it is so hard to uproot internalised lipomisia I know that all too well.

Hope you beat both that & the migraine. (Those bite, too.)