@TipsyTentacle Matti is nicer than me, so listen to her. if you want the meaner phrasing: most of us have literally zero incentive to play along, but we don't misgender you (in part because we're not assholes)

(if you object and say that lewds are incentive, admit that you're pretty/desirable for lewds to be an incentive)

I know brain worms are illogical, but don't let yours convince you that assholes are right.