@Ulfra_Wolfe I guess deciding for "someone else" is easier than deciding for myself. Last night & today I had a bit of visuals and conversations that helped me consider if my "Mind over matter" had me stop minding what mattered to me. I realize identity is somewhere between (or both) decisive intent and its witnessing, but a future me seems to be a bridge between all possible decisions and its interpretations.
Thank you for the suggestion, I think it reminded me of decisions towards my ideal self I started making long ago.