I'm not even in a monogamous relationship -- we're a triad -- but I find myself in this weird position where I want to make friends with other creatives online and simultaneously am terrified of it because that's exactly how I watched at least two new relationships start online.

"But why are you afraid?"

In one case, it meant the death of an existing relationship as two collaborators fell for each other, dhsnnggs

@swordjaw "You're in a polyam relationship, though. Even if you did end up gravitating towards another person, isn't there the possibility of just rearranging your weird relationship constellation?"

Yes, but also, welcome to my anxious mind, where only the worst outcomes are entertained.