@FStewartT i think it’s okay to ask “do you want to be called <Facebook name> irl?” if you are more than passing acquaintances.

@silby i might could if we start seeing each other socially, rather than thru this org? but since they used (other name) at the meeting, i assume they want to be called that name in that context.

@FStewartT that seems correct on all counts.

@silby yeah, it's like..... reasonably straightforward probably, i'm just n e r v o u s because i want to be actual friend-friends w/ this person so i don't wanna get myself Labor Organizing Zoned.