@ikea_femme Exactly. That inequality exists doesn't make the concept itself a negative. All we really want is freedom ...

I like this response too. The point about identity erasure is really important I think. Speaking for myself I feel *so* much better in so many ways since I started this change, and I don't think that eliminating the whole domain of choice would have had anything like a better result. The analogy about race and culture is really useful here I think.

Thank you for this ❤❤❤