Depressing conversations about transness with loved ones. I feel very dented now.

What do you think about people who question the notion of transness because the notion of gender itself is problematic? Like: "gender is not a meaningful concept; we should all be beyond gender, so a desire or need to change gender is pointless or even pathetic." This argument hurts a lot because it shows a real lack of understanding and thats something that is really hurtful to get from people you love.

I wish I had a better counter than i) in a post gender world, maybe, but not here, or ii) easy for you to say...

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