@Eve Damn, I worry that, too. And I've suffered from depression, so I generally worry about how brief good times are.
When I first came out to my friend, he told me I was manic. When I saw him 3 months later and feeling awfully cute, he was worried the joy of being a woman would fade.
Fucked me up to hear someone outside my head say it.
But there's no fucking way I'd detransition over "transition regret." Every time I have doubts, I think of being any other gender, and reality sets in. I hated being a guy, I love being a woman, and no kind of nonbinary gender fits me quite so well.
@Eve I mean, it doesn't hurt to plan. Like, legal transition is pretty slow and complicated in most places. And hair removal's REALLY annoying, so if you can start electro/laser, you should.
@ikea_femme exactly, that's what it is. There are lots of hard things and it's a pain to have to figure everything out each time but so so worth it. The sun shines now in a way it didn't before.
trans stuff Afficher plus
@Eve <3
It is nice when you look at the ceiling, then you see it shatter, but the shards float away into the sun