How many pivots have you had in your life? Points where, had a decision been made differently, you would be in a completely different place than you are now. I can think of 2-4 for myself, depending on severity.
@impiaaa Just one, I think. The worst decision I ever made, by modern society's standards. And yet, it shook me awake from being an entitled asshole, so I'd call that worth it.
@impiaaa I flunked out of college the first time I went, for a lot of reasons. If I hadn't, I'd probably be some dumb techbro on the coast.
@Dauntless Oof, I'm familiar with that. I hope things turned out well for you.