@CursedConfetti

That makes sense.

For me, I tend to fall back on it when I'm not feeling attractive or worthwhile it seems like

Which probably isn't healthy but a bitch has to cope somehow

@transcendentalConsensus
It is a amazing source of validation yeah

But that validation can easily turn into brainfuck depending on local culture

Like I've been in a baaaad spiral from the repeated pattern of ppl giving me what would be practically life-changing offers and then bail once they actually read my profile and get that I'm trans

@CursedConfetti

I tend to take no one at their word, and then if I'm really feeling like getting them off my ass I just drop that I have a dick casually and it's either an instablock or they jump to chaser territory

@transcendentalConsensus
Truth, no doubt

Though it is a bit of a luxury in some ways to have the freedom to readily step out of negotiations before they get toxic/gross

@CursedConfetti Yeah, I don't make any money doing it, because I don't make money doing anything, so I totally get that

I feel like if I ever get not awful at doing SW, i.e. can actually do it as work, then I won't be able to so readily do that