Most of dudes hangups around hiring sex workers and desire for it to not be 'transactional' comes from a desire to not cede negotiating power to women
With no boundaries set, there is more room to control. They were raised to get as much as they can for as little as they can. This is true for overt transactional sex as outside of it. They got no reason to reanalyze if they lead normative lives
With no boundaries set, there is more room to control. They were raised to get as much as they can for as little as they can. This is true for overt transactional sex as outside of it. They got no reason to reanalyze if they lead normative lives