This is another instance of #NotAll___
When marginalized people talk about a problem that the oppressing group perpetuates, don't jump straight to "Well I'M not like that!" Great. It's not about you. Let them have their voice, please.

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:11

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:11

@ivydarkmoon @Concerned_Catgirl wait - what? I’m on mobile so I can’t see what this is in response to, but I can assure you I am not taking anyone a voice away on this, I’m trying to defend it.

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:13

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:13

@hyper @Concerned_Catgirl Ah, okay. When you replied "in what way am I 'trash'? I've done nothing" <-- makes it about you, very similar to #NotAllCis mentality. It's not about you unless you make it about you. Does that make sense?

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:15

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:15

@ivydarkmoon @Concerned_Catgirl No I get it :) This conversation (now that I am on desktop) I was specifically trying to be playful (hence the emoji and "*cries forever*" bs) but I get what you are saying. :)

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:15

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:15

@hyper @Concerned_Catgirl Well, shit. All facetious/sarcasm was lost over text. Apologies -_-.

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:17

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:17

@ivydarkmoon @Concerned_Catgirl I feel like that happens more often than not. But no need to apologize, you saw something you didn't like and spoke up to it, would never fault you for that. <3

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:17

**🌿 Ivy Darkmoon 🌑** @ivydarkmoon · 24 nov. 2017, 22:17

@hyper @Concerned_Catgirl Is cisplaining a thing? I think I just did it. LOL.

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:18

**Hyper-Cole** @hyper@p2px.me · 24 nov. 2017, 22:18

@ivydarkmoon @Concerned_Catgirl haha I never heard of that so I wouldn't know lol