i try to make a rule of for every dollar i spend on myself, i spend a dollar for someone else. whether that be in my life, or within the fediverse, something like that ,, im not sure if that's a good rule to have bc it drains my funds pretty quickly but it at least helps me feel less guilty abt doing things for myself. idk

@coldwarwho i think this is a great idea, but 1:1 is too much tbh,, i think you should probably try to balance it out differently, 1 dollar for every 5 or 10 dollars or something