And the thing is : I won't screw the chance of my children by refusing them this help. I don't even have the right to do so, but even if I did, I wouldn't. Because if I can help them, I will. If they think the advantage is unfair and decide to refuse it, it will be their choice.

Personally, I won't refuse any advantage given. It's kind of a family philosophy you see? Stay safe, get what you can, try not to anger people... I'm not really proud of it, but hey, I'm alive and it's working out for me, I won't complain.

The thing is, this is not a personal issue. Inheritance shouldn't be allowed. There should be alternatives to it.