I recommend "go get a rommie" (queer, slightly nsfw, sex jokes at the beginning then actual character development) and "el goonish shive" (lots of goofyness, more and more queer, lots of gender swap humour at first then characters question their gender at some point.)
And "on a sunbeam" (lesbian teen romance/adventure in space, not a single man in the entire story, beautiful art, dreamlike)
Actually I have other title to recommend, but I'll need more than 600 char for that... >_<